Green Signals

On the flip side, there are encouraging signs that a candidate could be a great addition:

Asks about your preferences: For example, "How do you like things done?" or "What's the household's morning routine?" This shows respect and proactivity.

Shows thoughtfulness: They say things like, "Do you want me to check with you before restocking items?" This indicates they're considering how to fit into your system.

Comfortable with communication tools: If they are open to written lists, messaging, or check-ins, it's a sign they can adapt to organised methods.

Positive references beyond tasks: References who say more than "they did the job" — for instance, praising their honesty or how they handled the children — suggest the person invests in relationships, not just chores.

Look for these green signals; they're like finding a puzzle piece that clicks smoothly into place. They indicate not only competence, but also compatibility. Over the long run, compatibility in values and temperament often matters more than technical skill alone.